The etiquette followed at a wedding reception provides a set of rules which can be followed to ensure that no offence is given. For instance, it allows thanks to be given to the hosts or for important or honored guests to be recognised. Wedding occasions are now more flexible than they used to be, as etiquette changes in line with social change. For instance, the bride or bride's mother may speak if she so wishes.

Wedding speeches are given to congratulate the bride and groom, wish them future happiness together and to thank appropriate people. The following information applies to the etiquette of a traditional English wedding, however the ideas and guidance given will be useful if you have to make a speech at any wedding.

The traditional English wedding reception may be formal or informal, with many or just a few guests. It may be held in a hotel, hall, restaurant or even at home. The speeches made at a wedding reception are expected to be quite short, lasting only four or five minutes each and they may involve either proposing or receiving a toast.

So, what is a toast and what is a speech? Good question. A toast is the act of raising a glass and drinking in honor of, or to the health of, a person or thing. At a wedding the first toast is to the bride and groom, wishing them health and happiness. The second toast is to the bridesmaids and finally the third toast is to the parents of the bride and groom.

As already mentioned, the modern wedding reception is now far more flexible with regard to who will be speaking and when. It is important that you discuss and understand the format before the big day.

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